PROBLEMS AS A FAMILY Are you in conflict with your family members because of the advancing age or death of a parent or other relative? As parents age, it is quite common for family members to disagree about their care. The change in status of the parents, from matriarch/patriarch, to care recipients, can stir up all kinds of emotional issues in adult children, and sometimes rekindles old resentments and rivalries. A trained professional can help adult children sort through the issues, set priorities and learn how to set aside, if not resolve, the differences that keep them from working together for the best interests of their parent(s). I can advise you on how to talk with your parents about the future, or deal with difficult issues such as driving. I can address concerns about different living options (e.g. retirement communities, assisted living, home companions); durable powers of attorney for health care and property; and the myriad difficulties associated with dementia. A typical consultation would consist of one to three personal meetings between any interested family members and me. First we would outline the problems and concerns that are involved, and then I will help you to prioritize issues and sort through options. I will also provide referrals to community resources and other professionals and providers who can assist as needed.
Do you need help to decide how best to care for one for your aging relatives?
Today, more and more people provide care to older parents or other aging relatives. In fact, according to the National Family Caregivers Association, more than 50 million Americans care for loved ones with a chronic illness, disability, or the frailties of older age. If you are caring for someone, you may not have the time or energy to track down all of the many resources available to help you. Or, you may anticipate becoming a caregiver in the future, and your family needs help putting together a plan to prepare for the potential challenges brought about by older age.
